Modern mothers tend to be overwhelmed among work, family and other nameless responsibilities. They often ignore themself, forget that they are just women needing love and being loved. However, it is a fact that those “wonder women” are just human, and need revitalization and pampering. That’s why these 10 self-care tips for busy moms should be noted to recharge energy and resilience for a healthier and happier maternal life.
1. Take sufficient sleep
My mom had years of suffering from insomnia caused by daily habits; she only got 4-6 hours of sleep per day. If you are like my mom, you seem to get less sleep than your body needs. But getting adequate sleep is a must to both your mental and physical health, as it is the time to recover your resilience and energy. You should, and need to, establish a 7 or 8-hour sleep routine in a peaceful space. Before bedtime, try to avoid caffeine and electronic devices like smartphones and laptops.
2. Increase physical activities
As a busy mom, it is not easy for you to commit from 30 to 60 minutes per day at the gym or in any hardcore training like tennis or running. Instead, a 5 or 10 workout session per day is good enough, you can easily find instruction videos on the Internet. Or else, you can think of household chores as a method of exercise, every movement counts. For example, an adult weighing 170 pounds (around 77 kilograms), with 60 minutes for grocery shopping can burn up to 232 calories, and that amount of time for dusting can burn up to 155 calories1.
3. Stay mindful
Becoming a mom may extremely change your emotion. For example, you may face overstimulation and must find different methods to cope with it. You may always force yourself to do everything perfectly and torture yourself of minor mistakes. That’s why practicing mindfulness is a must for every mom. It is misunderstood that to stay mindful, you must meditate, join a yoga course, buy a scented candle or schedule luxurious holidays. Actually, mindfulness is about staying calm, simply noticing and accepting what is going on at the moment, then feeling more altruistic and relieved.
4. Respect your boundaries
As a mom, you are under a lot of pressure from surrounding people. Everyone has their own opinions and forces you to agree with them. However, no matter how hard this life is challenging you or people are talking at you, remember you have your own boundaries and no one has the right to violate it. Do what you understand and believe, learn to say “no” and prioritize your plan. You respect your boundaries first, then everyone will follow.
5. Delegate and seek support
Delegating and seeking support is one of the key self-care tips for busy moms. Do not carry out everything yourself, learn to delegate to others. It is totally reasonable to ask your spouse to share household chores or do babysitting. I understand you are afraid of him not doing as well as you, but you need time for your self-care. More importantly, sharing can help your partner understand your challenge, then sympathize and love you more.
6. Maintain a balanced diet
A healthy diet, with sufficient carbs, proteins and fat, is essential for your body and mind. Busy moms, with less time for self care, often choose convenient food or fast food knowing that they are not good. Meanwhile, fresh and home-cooked foods providing nutrition and energy, require time and effort. But put your effort into it, and you will see it is really worthy. Enjoy preparing and cooking meals for your family and yourself, then they will boost your physical and mental health.
7. Stay hydrated
Water is the cheapest but best for our health. It is an effective supporter in weight loss and weight management, as it is proven that drinking water before meals can reduce body weight, body mass index, and body composition substantially2. In addition, an adequate amount of water has a positive effect on cognition and stabilizes emotions, because mild dehydration, as little as 2% fluid loss, can have a negative impact on memory, concentration, and emotional well-being3.
8. Give a moment to rest
A busy mom is always under pressure from non-stop stuff. But have you ever thought that all those hectic times are because you just desire to do better and better, and no one has forced you? Actually, some short naps within the day can make you feel more refreshed, energetic and resilient. It can be as simple as a 5-minute walk outside or a few moments closing your eyes. Reasonable rest can even make you stronger and more resilient.
9. Love and care your skin
Your skin, the largest organ, implies the situation of your physical and mental health, and may affect your emotion more than you think. Stress may be triggered if you suffer from acne, wrinkles or allergy. Be a self-cared mom with a basic skincare routine, focusing on cleaning, moisturizing and sunscreening. When looking at yourself in the mirror with a bright skin, you can be reassured that your body is undergoing well and your mood will be absolutely upswing.
10. Stay socially connected
No matter how much time you spend on your family and business, please do not forget that there are ones that love and value you, like your friends. Their energy, stories, experience, and even advice, support can enhance your emotional well-being. You do not have to feel guilty to hang out with friends or colleagues once a week. Also, you can join groups or networks in any areas you like, such as regarding your career and your hobbies. You are a mom of a family, but still are an independent individual in this world.
Conclusion
Being a maternal woman is absolutely exhausting and overwhelming at times; however, your sufficient self-care can benefit yourself and your family as well. I hope you are not forgetting yourself, and with these 10 self-care tips for busy moms, you can enjoy your motherhood lifetime without being stressed out. You deserve high-quality self-care like how you take care of your loved ones.
Sources
- Searing, L. (2020) Calories burned in boring household chores can help fight stay-at-home weight gain – The Washington Post. Available at: https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/calories-burned-in-boring-household-chores-can-help-fight-stay-at-home-weight-gain/2020/05/22/a7ddf47c-9b72-11ea-ad09-8da7ec214672_story.html. ↩︎
- Vij, V.A. (2013) ‘Effect of “water induced thermogenesis” on body weight, body mass index and body composition of overweight subjects’, JOURNAL OF CLINICAL AND DIAGNOSTIC RESEARCH [Preprint]. doi:10.7860/jcdr/2013/5862.3344.
↩︎ - Pomlett, M. (2023) Maternal mental health challenges, Psychological Health Care. Available at: https://www.psychologicalhealthcare.com.au/blog/maternal-mental-health/. ↩︎
